I get the anonymous sex advice column idea - I love reading them.. . but

 I really do enjoy the advice column posts, particularly from Slate.

And, even when I find it very uncomfortable, it is enlightening and sometimes fun to read them.

But then there are those letters that are, as the kids say, cringe. Not gross, but just cringe.

Example:

What are the ethics of fantasizing about dead celebrities when masturbating? I recently rewatched a film from the early 2000s starring someone who has sadly since passed away, and they played a character I found very charming the first time I watched the film and all the more so the second time around. The character later popped up in my thoughts during a self-love session, but I felt a little weird about it…

Hum....

Part of me thinks, yuck? But the other part of me wants to know what dead celebrity they are thinking about. Also, is this the same or similar to fantasizing about a live celebrity, but only when they were younger and cute? No reason, just asking.. (see, it is weird, right?).