Where else to you get this besides odd ass advice columns?
Dear How to Do It,
I’m a man in his 40s who lives in a large building that started off as one massive home, got converted into a triplex, and then further broken down into smaller units. It works well for us residents, since most of us are part of a single group relationship, and the easy access facilitates a lot of things in our “polycule.” There’s some friction between us, but less than I imagine you’d get with a randomly selected group of the same size (nine adults, to be clear).
Two weeks ago, my adult son, “Robert,” who is 21, came over to visit. While he was here, he apparently slept with “Amanda,” a 34-year-old woman. They didn’t advertise their sexual activities but didn’t really try to hide it either. As far as I know, they had not met prior, but they hit it off pretty quickly when he came over.
Okay....
PS the advice writer said that it was fine to be upset about this, but not fine to be upset AT anyone. Because he did not define what is out of bounds previously, it was okay. Now, she should have seen this a boundary in any case (sayth the columnist), but maybe she didn't so. Get over it.
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